Online Dating: The Two Most Important Things Men Need To Know

By: Grant Adams

I've got what I call my "Founding Revelation" that inspired me to work for two years on the Net2Bed System, and to write down all of my findings in my System Manual.

It's this one thing that, if it weren't 100% true, I'd never have embarked on my life's work.

If I didn't actually discover this to be true, you and I wouldn't know each other.

And if this weren't true, I'd never have been with as many absolutely gorgeous, eager, and willing women as I have.

One day, as a challenge, I decided to go after the HOTTEST girls online with what I had learned. One site allowed me to see the 10's who got the most hits per day. They were simply the most amazing beautiful girls. And so. . . I wrote to 5 of them and got dates with 4!"

Surely, I must have known something that got me those outstanding results.

I know this much.

It's not because I'm a hunk (because I'm not).
It's not because I'm filthy rich (because I'm not).
It's not because I drive a fancy car, live in a fancy house, know important people, or have an amazingly impressive job.

None of that is true.

It's because I learned how to understand women. How to listen to what they are saying and not saying, and reflect it back to them in a penetrating, insightful way so that they instantly know that I understand them-- and that I am DIFFERENT.

Then they want to know me. They want to please me.

It's because I learned their language, and began to translate my own words when I spoke.

It's because I learned the right and wrong things to do online, so that by the time I meet them, they are already mine.

In short, it's because I studied and I learned.

My founding revelation, and the first thing you need to know, is this:

"Mastering Online Dating is a Teachable Skill"

And that means that, no matter how unsuccessful you might be right now, there is hope. There is a way out. And there is success with beautiful, desirable women waiting for you.

It's not that you were not born to be successful with women. You're not destined to be the dateless one in your group of buddies.

We ALL start out the same, lacking a certain SET of skills and knowledge to A T T R A C T and get H 0 T W 0 M E N. You just haven't learned it yet.

It's a lot like sports.

There are lots of guys who start to play sports, but fail. And there's one simple reason why most of them fail, too.

It's not because they're not talented.

It's not because they're not big enough or strong enough.

It's not because they don't try hard.

Would you agree that whatever this problem is, Michael Jordan probably doesn't suffer from it?

The same holds true for online dating. Some guys will be successful, and some won't. And it's for this very same quality that Michael Jordan has, that I have, and that I hope you have.

Let's find out if you have something in common with Michael Jordan. Read this short story about the first meeting between Phil Jackson and Michael Jordan:

"Phil Jackson tells the story about another Master -- about when he met Michael Jordan for the first time. This was a time when b-ball was purely star driven but Jackson had a new, better idea of how to run a court -- based in the now legendary triangle offense.

Jackson was the newly appointed coach. In walks Michael Jordan for their first meeting. Jordan sits down and listens to the gangly Jackson explain the new team philosophy founded in the concept that every player touches the ball, de-centering the attack away from the "star."

What did Michael Jordan say? Did he storm out of the room? I mean this is the best player in the history of the world. The top. The uber-master. The King. Jordan replied...

"I've always been a coachable player. Whatever you want to do, I'm behind you. "

Do you recognize the voice of a true Master?

Jordan -- already the best - knows he can always get better.

Are you a coachable player? Can you get better? Do you want to play this game so you can dribble around the court looking busy? Or do you want to play to win?

So, the second most important thing you need to know about online dating is: Be Coachable.

That means listen, learn, test, and try. And above all, practice continually.