Props for Meeting Women

By: Matthew Whiting

This is probably the most known but least understood method for seduction. There are many ways that using a prop can backfire, making you look strange or just creepy. But when the technique works, you have an instant "in" with a woman you might otherwise not have had the opportunity to talk to.

So what is a prop? Well, a prop is anything that gives you the opportunity to get into a conversation with a woman. Much more importantly, it's an object that engages a woman's attention and elicits a response. Simply buying a girl a drink at a bar gives you an opportunity to get into a conversation with a woman, but it isn't in the same league as the props discussed here because it really only accomplishes half of the job. While it does give you some face time with a woman and provide you with an opportunity to begin a conversation, it doesn't really draw her out and force her to take an interest in you.

This is also a big mistake when thinking about props to use, as what is interesting to many men holds absolutely no value - conversational or otherwise - for most women. If you were trying to engage a guy in conversation, sports accomplishments, trophies, even a Super Bowl ring, might be enough to start a lasting friendship.

This isn't the case with women, and so when determining what prop my best be suited to the job, don't think about what you find most interesting, imagine what she will find most interesting and what will engage her attention. Also, think about the way that it might reflect on you. A Super Bowl ring is fantastic, but it really doesn't show much depth of character or anything else three-dimensional about you. Imagine the way that the prop will reflect on you, and how it will make the girl you're approaching feel.

Perhaps the most classic example of a prop is the dog. Dogs are so immensely successful as props because they make the dog owner seem responsible and sensitive at the same time. This is a one-two punch for women, creating an image of a guy that has two of the most hard-to-find traits in men. Additionally, a dog is fun, happy, adorable, and will put a woman at her ease. And of course, petting a dog is a nice natural pause and a perfect time for introductions and a conversation. A dog really is the best thing you could possibly do to augment your love life.

Other examples of props that might help with meeting women include cars, electronic gadgets, or business cards. Now, each of these has a trick, so read on. Cars are expensive, and the type of girl you will attract with a hot car is very, very different than the type of girl you might attract by reading poetry or taking a cooking class. Be aware of this. Electronic gadgets can be an excellent way to introduce yourself, particularly to a girl with similar interests. Finally, by business cards, I don't mean just having a business card. Most girls will pocket or destroy a business card if you offer one at a bar. Instead, use the business card as an introduction to fantasy of your own devising. Claim that you are a talent agent, a filmmaker, an artist or photographer who needs a MODEL. Each of these props is a great introduction to a conversation, and with any luck, something more.